Cooperative relationships require asymmetric giving at their outset

Evidence

Second, the actions we take to form, strengthen, or repair mutualistic relationships differ by relationship stage (Clark & Beck 2011). To win people over to a cooperative communal relationship, for instance, we begin by offering more benefits than we request, but, if a commitment to a relationship is made, offers and requests even out if needs are even (Beck & Clark 2009). — Nicolas Baumard, A mutualistic approach to morality, 341

Categorization

  • XREF: connects to: Cooperation is symmetric while dependence is asymmetric.; Trust emerges from gradually escalated reciprocal exchanges in ongoing relationships — Shapiro, Susan P., The Social Control of Impersonal Trust, 15; Initial cooperation can wreck backward induction and build rational trust — Russell Hardin, Trust and Trustworthiness, 606 (+6 more)

Broader Connections