Muslim men escape stranger harassment but women in hijabs do not

Evidence

Nasreen, a forty-­two-­year-­old Palestinian American and mother of five, said that before she started wearing the hijab, she sometimes passed for white or a white ethnic, like an Italian or Greek. Once she started wearing it, she had some interesting experiences with her neighbors, who she considered to be her friends. After 9/11, the father of her son’s neighborhood friend would come over and engage her in conversation about religion. She felt he was trying to persuade her to give up her religious beliefs. He would try to convince her to take off the hijab. He said, “But you’re so good, Nasreen. You’re so good. And why do you have to put that on? It’s not making you better. It’s ugly.” She told me that his wife did not like her because she wore the hijab. She said her son’s friend would tell her stories of what his mother said about her. He told her his mother said, “She’s white. She’s an American. Why the hell does she have this on?” Another neighbor, an older white woman, said she would be more beautiful without the hijab. — , Selod, Saher - Forever Suspect_…, 404 (#expands, via linked claim)

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  • XREF: connects to: Citizen surveillance targets hijab-wearing women publicly but men privately as suspected terrorists — , Selod, Saher - Forever Suspect_…, 347; Hijab-wearing women self-impose house arrest out of safety fear — , Selod, Saher - Forever Suspect_…, 488; Wearing the hijab shifts how Muslim women are racially perceived and treated (+4 more)

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