Genuine feminist emancipation does not reduce love but deepens mutual understanding between equals.

Evidence

It is remarkable that Stendhal is both so profoundly romantic and so decidedly feminist; feminists are usually rational minds that adopt a universal point of view in all things; but it is not only in the name of freedom in general but also in the name of individual happiness that Stendhal calls for women’s emancipation. Love, he thinks, will have nothing to lose; on the contrary, it will be all the truer that woman, as the equal of man, will be able to understand him more completely. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 616

Categorization

  • XREF: Contrasts with the common assumption that feminism is incompatible with romanticism, and foreshadows Beauvoir’s later analysis of equal love in the conclusion. — connects to: Loving freely like a man requires concrete equality, not just belief in it. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1933; Authentic love requires reciprocal recognition of both partners’ freedoms — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1883; Feminism must combat domination across sex, race, and class, not just male chauvinism — bell hooks, Ain’t I a Woman_ Black Women and…, 562 (+3 more)
  • DEEPTHINKING: Forms a core existentialist-feminist thesis: two free subjects confronting each other justifies existence — the ground of Beauvoir’s positive vision of reciprocity.

Broader Connections