A woman needs her male lover to remain transcendent, not relapse into immanence

Evidence

But the god, the master, must not abandon himself to the repose of immanence; it is with a hostile look that the woman contemplates this destroyed transcendence; she detests his animal inertia, this body that no longer exists for her but in itself, abandoned to a contingence whose ransom is her own contingence. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1872

Categorization

  • DEFINE: This passage operationalizes the immanence/transcendence pair in the concrete case of the lover’s sleep — the man asleep becomes pure immanent body, losing the transcendence she projects onto him.
  • XREF: connects to: Genuine feminist emancipation does not reduce love but deepens mutual understanding between equals. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 616; A married woman’s coquetry seeks male confirmation rather than attachment.; A man’s enduring love can transform woman’s sexual submission into transcendence — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1859 (+2 more)

Broader Connections