Being-for-others generates perpetual conflict as each self objectifies the other
Evidence
Being-for-others (être-pour-autrui). The third ekstasis (q.v.) of the For-itself. There arises here a new dimension of being in which my Self exists outside as an object for others. The For-others involves a perpetual conflict as each For-itself seeks to recover its own Being by directly or indirectly making an object out of the other. — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 1462
Categorization
- XREF: The basis of Sartre’s (and Beauvoir’s) account of interpersonal relations as conflict — the gaze and master-slave dynamic that Beauvoir will radicalize in sexual and ethical terms. — connects to: Being-for-others alienates me into an objectivity I cannot reclaim for myself; The for-others requires a totality in which selfness and the Other are reciprocal structures; The Other’s mutual negation is required for being-for-others, not merely my own (+12 more)
- DEFINE: Defines the third ekstasis and its inherent conflict.
Broader Connections
- Resolving one conflict merely produces a fresh enemy to define oneself against
#exemplifies(0.85) — Samuel P. Huntington, The Clash of Civilizations and the…, 353 - The totality of for-itself and in-itself differs from for-others by its absence of reciprocity
#expands(0.82) - The for-itself becomes itself only by assuming its alienated being-for-others
#responds-to(0.78) — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 777 - Knowledge of others serves confrontation as much as coexistence
#corroborates(0.75) - Group identity formation requires the existence of enemies to define the self against
#exemplifies(0.74) — Samuel P. Huntington, The Clash of Civilizations and the…, 33 - Objectified conflict follows its own intrinsic logic without subjective moderation
#expands(0.72) — Georg Simmel, on individuality and social forms_…, 306