Some women appropriate another’s transcendence rather than pursue objective aims

Evidence

This is not, here, a question of ambitious women having chosen personal aims and using men to reach them—as did Mme de Staël and the princesse des Ursins—but rather of women animated by a wholly subjective desire for importance, with no objective aim, trying to appropriate for themselves the transcendence of another. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1823

Categorization

  • DEFINE: Sharpens the defining contrast between instrumental ambition and narcissistic appropriation of another’s transcendence — a key analytic move in the narcissist chapter.
  • XREF: The appropriation of another’s transcendence connects directly to the master-slave dialectic and Sartre’s for-others being developed elsewhere in The Second Sex. — connects to: Midlife women erupt into compensating desires and acts because they never freely chose goals. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1711; Women’s “revelations” are peace, not freedom, because they lack action — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1764; Women in love seek to be indispensable rather than merely wanted (+6 more)

Broader Connections