Being-for-others precedes and founds the experience of the we.

Evidence

If this is the case, then in order for a consciousness to get the consciousness of being engaged in a “we,” it is necessary that the other consciousnesses which enter into community with it should be first given in some other way; that is, either in the capacity of a transcendence-transcending or as a transcendence-transcended. The “we” is a certain particular experience which is produced in special cases on the foundation of being-for-others in general. The being-for-others precedes and founds the being-with-others. — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 1017

Categorization

  • DEFINE: Establishes the foundational ordering of being-for-others over being-with-others — central to Sartre’s rejection of Heidegger’s Mitsein.
  • XREF: Contrasts sharply with Heidegger’s Mitsein (being-with) as equiprimordial; also the systematic backdrop Beauvoir builds on for the us/them dynamic of oppression. — connects to: The ‘us’ experience means being objects together before alienating others. — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness: An Essay on…, 1018; The We-experience is secondary to and dependent on prior knowledge of the Other.; Being-for-others is suffered rather than actively existed (+6 more)
  • DEEPTHINKING: The claim that the other is only ever encountered as transcendence-transcending or transcendence-transcended — never as a peer on equal footing — is the hinge of Sartre’s whole social ontology and resists easy summary.

Broader Connections