The presence of a deceased loved one can feel real during mourning.

Evidence

I could not rid myself of a feeling that my mother was in her room, and that she might at any moment cough, or stir, or call to me. … Realizing with appalling force that so far as my philosophy went our separation was eternal, I nevertheless hoped that her spirit was with us at that moment, I did not know it—I desired it. — Hamlin Garland Munseys, A Daughter of the Middle Border, 1059

Categorization

  • corroborated: 2 independent passages support this claim — Hamlin Garland Munseys, A Daughter of the Middle Border, 1059
  • XREF: connects to: Grief and desire can coexist in profound moments of reflection. — Lynch, Thomas, The undertaking-life studies from the…, 441; Grief encompasses a range of complex, untidy emotions. — Lynch, Thomas, The undertaking-life studies from the…, 616; Trusting relationships can bring comfort during difficult times. — Crews, Harry, A childhood the biography of a place, 1026 (+5 more)

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