The ‘us’ experience means being objects together before alienating others.

Evidence

There is no question here of subjectivities qua subjectivities. In the sentence, “They are looking at me,” I want to indicate that I experience myself as an object for others, as an alienated Me, as a transcendence-transcended. If the sentence, “They are looking at us,” is to indicate a real experience, it is necessary that in this experience I make proof of the fact that I am engaged with others in a community of transcendences-transcended, of alienated “Me’s.” The “Us” here refers to an experience of being-objects in common. — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 1018

Categorization

  • DEFINE: Parses the grammatical distinction between ‘we-as-subject’ and ‘we-as-object’ (us) into two ontologically distinct experiences.
  • XREF: The us-as-object shared alienation is directly the mechanism Beauvoir formalizes as women constituted as the Other together before male gaze. — connects to: Being-for-others precedes and founds the experience of the we. — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness: An Essay on…, 1017; A sudden common spectacle can dissolve interpersonal conflict into ‘we’ experience; The We-subject experience is a subjective psychological event, not an ontological relation — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness: An Essay on…, 1035 (+6 more)

Broader Connections