Showing young children horror films can cause lasting trauma they later reframe into forgiveness

Evidence

Like the time when I took her with me to see the horror classic Carrie. She had just turned six and was so terrified that she kept hiding under her seat until I forced her to get off the sticky theatre floor of the Castro Theatre in San Francisco. To this day she blames me for her inability to enjoy a good scary movie. I hadn’t realized how badly I traumatized her until she brought it up with me over a lunch we shared with my therapist friend. My friend asked her if she still held resentment about it and she said, β€œI forgave Mom because going to the movies was the only way she could afford to study her craft of acting.” β€” Dolores DeLuce, Blow Jobs, 61

Categorization

  • XREF: connects to: Childhood emotional tones get reapplied to adult situations β€” Mark Fisher, Ghosts of My Life: Writings on…, 436; Resilient children self-generate their own constancy after trauma annihilates prior form β€” Catherine Malabou, What Should We Do with Our Brain?, 251

Broader Connections