Prostitution fantasies in girls can slide into actual promiscuity

Evidence

We can be sure that these girls who gave in passively nevertheless suffered the trauma of defloration; one would like to know what psychological influence this brutal experience had on their future; but “girls” are not psychoanalyzed, they are inarticulate in describing themselves and take refuge behind clichĂ©s. For some, the facility of giving themselves to the first comer can be explained by the existence of prostitution fantasies about which we have spoken: out of family resentment, horror of their budding sexuality, the desire to act grown-up, some young girls imitate prostitutes; they use harsh makeup, see boys, act flirtatiously and provocatively; they who are still infantile, asexual, and cold think they can play with fire with impunity; one day a man takes them at their word, and they slip from dreams to acts. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1658

Categorization

  • XREF: Beauvoir’s ‘prostitution fantasies’ fantasy-of-the-Other thread connects to the earlier chapter on the girl’s imaginary relation to masculine desire. — connects to: Religious prostitution originally encoded fertility magic before sliding into venality — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 191; Marital boredom can trigger fantasies of prostitution in young brides — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1274; Adolescent girls eroticize imagined self-transformation rather than actual sexual encounters — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 709 (+2 more)

Broader Connections