Prostitution fantasies in girls can slide into actual promiscuity
Evidence
We can be sure that these girls who gave in passively nevertheless suffered the trauma of defloration; one would like to know what psychological influence this brutal experience had on their future; but âgirlsâ are not psychoanalyzed, they are inarticulate in describing themselves and take refuge behind clichĂ©s. For some, the facility of giving themselves to the first comer can be explained by the existence of prostitution fantasies about which we have spoken: out of family resentment, horror of their budding sexuality, the desire to act grown-up, some young girls imitate prostitutes; they use harsh makeup, see boys, act flirtatiously and provocatively; they who are still infantile, asexual, and cold think they can play with fire with impunity; one day a man takes them at their word, and they slip from dreams to acts. â Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1658
Categorization
- XREF: Beauvoirâs âprostitution fantasiesâ fantasy-of-the-Other thread connects to the earlier chapter on the girlâs imaginary relation to masculine desire. â connects to: Religious prostitution originally encoded fertility magic before sliding into venality â Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 191; Marital boredom can trigger fantasies of prostitution in young brides â Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1274; Adolescent girls eroticize imagined self-transformation rather than actual sexual encounters â Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 709 (+2 more)
Broader Connections
- Adolescent girls eroticize imagined self-transformation rather than actual sexual encounters
#complicates(0.85) â Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 709 - Favorite sexual fantasies reveal that women want intimacy while men want sex acts
#corroborates(0.80) â Bob Altemeyer, The Authoritarian Specter, 2411 - Males have serious sexual fantasies about twice as often as females
#complicates(0.75) â Bob Altemeyer, The Authoritarian Specter, 2407