Motherhood alone does not fulfill a woman or give meaning to her existence.
Evidence
The first is that motherhood is enough in all cases to fulfill a woman: this is not at all true. Many are the mothers who are unhappy, bitter, and unsatisfied. The example of Sophia Tolstoy, who gave birth more than twelve times, is significant; she never stops repeating, all through her diary, that everything seems useless and empty in the world and in herself. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1527
Categorization
- XREF: Directly counters the naturalized ideal of maternal fulfillment; connects to Beauvoir’s immanence/transcendence apparatus and to later Second Wave critiques of the maternal mystique (Friedan). — connects to: Life’s meaning cannot be found in external achievements alone. — Leo Tolstoy, A Confession, 48; Motherhood offers women fusion that male embrace only promises then refuses — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1449
- SEED: Angle: using Sophia Tolstoy’s diaries as a case study of the unmet promise of maternity as fulfillment — the ‘sacred calling’ that failed internally.
- SHARE: For a reader of Russian literature or biography — Tolstoy’s wife’s private diary contradicts the maternal-joy narrative assigned to her public role.
Broader Connections
- Life’s meaning cannot be found in external achievements alone.
#corroborates(0.85) — Leo Tolstoy, A Confession, 48