Iranian American girls feel shame about being flagged as insufficiently Iranian

Evidence

We knew we had to have a separate outfit to wear, something modest. … And my sister wasn’t allowed [on the Iran Air flight] at first because her [bare] ankles were showing. I felt so guilty, like are we “bad” Iranians? … Did we already mess up and show ourselves as “American” before we even got there? — Neda Maghbouleh, The Limits of Whiteness, 387

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