Feminine eroticism involves becoming an object to snare another
Evidence
For the girl, erotic transcendence consists in making herself prey in order to make a catch. She becomes an object; and she grasps herself as object; she is surprised to discover this new aspect of her being: it seems to her that she has been doubled; instead of coinciding exactly with her self, here she is existing outside of her self. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 845
Categorization
- DEFINE: Core definition of the girl’s erotic transcendence as self-objectification: making herself prey to make a catch.
- XREF: Connects to Hegel’s master-slave dialectic and Sartre’s for-itself/in-itself; the girl splits into a doubled self. — connects to: Renouncing ego and control is required for authentic erotic reciprocity.; Female religiosity and eroticism both make the self an object for a transcendent being — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 705; Weaning from the mother’s body coincides with the child’s first attempts to seduce others — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 677 (+9 more)
- DEEPTHINKING: The doubled-self formulation is the crux of Beauvoir’s existentialist-feminist account of femininity as alienation from one’s own body.
Broader Connections
- The female body’s shaping inverted from seduction into tactical concealment
#contradicts(0.80) — Frantz Fanon, A Dying Colonialism, 210 - Female desire is experienced as viscous passivity versus male predatory impetuosity.
#expands(0.75) - Veiling and ritual bodily acts train the self into piety
#expands(0.72) - Female sexual initiation often reads as sacrifice mixed with fear rather than pleasure
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