Extreme weather dissolves the ordinary rules of social introduction.

Evidence

Finding that there would be risk in trying to ride till nightfall, in the early afternoon I left the road and went two miles into the hills by an untrodden path, where there were gates to open, and a rapid steep-sided creek to cross; and at the entrance to a most fantastic gorge I came upon an elegant frame house belonging to Mr. Perry, a millionaire, to whom I had an introduction which I did not hesitate to present, as it was weather in which a traveler might almost ask for shelter without one. — Isabella L. Bird, A Lady’s Life in the Rocky Mountains, 164

Categorization

  • SEED: An essay on the frontier etiquette of asking for shelter: how wilderness travel collapsed class distance faster than any city custom did.
  • CANDY: She presented her letter of introduction anyway, “as it was weather in which a traveler might almost ask for shelter” without one.
  • XREF: connects to: Physical social boundaries gave utterances meaning that collapse destroys — Jenny Odell, How to Do Nothing: Resisting the…, 548; Crises create exceptional possibilities by suspending normal rules of conduct. — Niklas Luhmann, Trust and Power, 760; Disasters forge new social bonds via shared external threat. — John Drury and Chris Cocking and Steve Reicher, Everyone for themselves? A comparative…, 16 (+2 more)

Broader Connections