Exchange is a change within each party, not a thing between them.

Evidence

In dealing with the concept of exchange there is frequently a confusion of thought which leads one to speak of a relationship as though it were something external to the elements between which it occurs. Exchange means, however, only a condition of or a change within each of these elements, nothing that is between them in the sense of an object separated in space between the two other objects. … This is just like being misled by the substantive concept of “the kiss” (which to be sure is also “exchanged”) into thinking that a kiss is something that lies outside of the two pairs of lips, outside of their movements and sensations. — Georg Simmel, on individuality and social forms_…, 223

Categorization

  • DEFINE: Clarifies exchange as an internal condition of each party rather than a mediating object, using the striking kiss metaphor.
  • SEED: The ‘kiss’ de-reification example is a ready-made illustration for essays about relational vs. substantive thinking about social categories.
  • XREF: connects to: Exchange itself, not utility or scarcity, creates economic value. — Georg Simmel, on individuality and social forms_…, 261; Ideological consciousness arises from phenomenal exchange relations, not directly from production.; Exchange creates value such that the sum exceeds what each party held. — Georg Simmel, on individuality and social forms_…, 219 (+6 more)

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