Even voluntary womanly submission requires man acknowledge his need for her
Evidence
It is not a slave’s surrender: before deciding to stay with him, she insists that he recognize his need for her; he recognizes it, since in fact woman is necessary for man; so she consents to never being anything other than his companion; she adopts his goals, his values, his universe. — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 503
Categorization
- XREF: Previews Beauvoir’s reciprocity theme — the Other is acknowledged insofar as the subject needs her, resonating with her Hegelian frame of mutual recognition. — connects to: Individualized men recognize women as free individuals they desire recognition from — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 367; Male love requires woman as an object who remains unconscious of herself — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 614; Masochistic submission depends on the lover’s maintained prestige — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1863 (+3 more)
Broader Connections
- Masochistic submission depends on the lover’s maintained prestige
#corroborates(0.85) — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 1863 - The lover’s self-presentation demands the Other’s free recognition to succeed
#corroborates(0.80) - Male love requires woman as an object who remains unconscious of herself
#complicates(0.78) — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 614 - Man’s self-realization requires woman’s consent to serve as his crucible.
#corroborates(0.75) — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 622 - Woman’s role is to be the mediating consciousness through which man discovers himself
#expands(0.75) — Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex, 614