Assume the Other’s freedom to become limited by their gaze
Evidence
Now then we can see how my freedom in a way recovers its own limits, for I can grasp myself as limited by the Other only in so far as the Other exists for me, and I can make the Other exist for me only as a subjectivity recognized by my assuming my being-for-others. There is no circle here. By the free assumption of this being-alienated which I experience, I suddenly make the Other’s transcendence exist for me as such. It is only by my recognizing the freedom of anti-Semites (whatever use they may make of it) and by my assuming this being-a-Jew that I am a Jew for them; it is only thus that being-a-Jew will appear as the external objective limit of the situation. If, on the contrary, it pleases me to consider the anti-Semites as pure objects, then my being-a-Jew disappears immediately to give place to the simple consciousness (of) being a free, unqualifiable transcendence. To recognize others and, if I am a Jew, to assume my being-a-Jew are one and the same. — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 1234
Categorization
- XREF: Directly sets up Beauvoir’s account of woman as made Other by being-for-others; coheres with her insistence that women can assume or refuse their being-as-Other. — connects to: A third observer can disarm the Other’s gaze by transcending it in turn; Proving one’s alienation requires freely recognizing the Other’s freedom; The Other’s gaze imposes unchosen determinations on my being — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness: An Essay on…, 1229 (+2 more)
- DEEPTHINKING: The claim that my limits only exist if I freely assume the Other’s freedom — that there is no circle — is a dense, generative move, not a simple point.
Broader Connections
- The Other’s freedom becomes a limit only through one’s own free choice.
#corroborates(0.90) — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 1240 - Proving one’s alienation requires freely recognizing the Other’s freedom
#complicates(0.85) - The Other’s gaze imposes unchosen determinations on my being
#expands(0.80) — Jean-Paul Sartre, Being and Nothingness, 1229 - Individual freedom is achieved only through the freedom of others
#expands(0.78) — Simone de Beauvoir, The Ethics of Ambiguity, 144